A pearl diver lived alone and without hope. Fishing was the only thing that distracted him.
He had always failed in his relationships, so he devoted all his attention to his gear. He set himself a goal: to find a black pearl.
Every ordinary pearl he brought up he returned to the sea. The years passed and the great dream of his life remained unfulfilled.
Until at last he found it, and he was the happiest of men. However, one day he got distracted and the black pearl fell again to the bottom of the sea.
He searched for it without success. In an instant what had demanded so much work from him vanished, and that bad trick of fortune sank him into sadness.
In time he got back on his feet and became obsessed again with finding another black pearl. He devoted his whole life to it, without ever succeeding.
That is why Ifá teaches that whoever chases the perfect never reaches it. If someone appears who comes close to what one longs for, one must look after that person so as not to lose them.
What is won with so much effort can be lost through a single carelessness, and whoever looks for the perfect all his life ends up alone. Before wishing for what does not exist, it is better to look after what one already has.
This path has its own ebbó; the full list is in the complete treatise.