An Obá employed a farmer whose wife was of great beauty. The Obá, without the husband knowing, tried to win her over, and she always rejected him.
The farmer visited Orunmila to consult. Orunmila interpreted the sign and warned him: do not let yourself be blinded, since what is seen is not always the truth. The man paid no attention.
Later, the Obá wrote to the woman announcing that he would arrive that night to stay with her. She sent the message back with the same messenger, after noting a threat on the back: if he came, she would kill him. The messenger lost the letter in a muddy stretch without noticing. The farmer passed by there, found it and picked it up. He pulled the sheet out of the envelope and read it, but his wife's reply was on the back and the envelope was full of mud, so he saw only the words of the Obá.
Maddened, the farmer grabbed a machete and hid behind a palm tree near the path that led to his house. At nightfall the Obá passed, and the farmer killed him with the machete. Then he ran to his house, determined to kill his wife too. He arrived furious, without announcing himself; the house was dark, the woman, taking him for the Obá, plunged a knife into him. On hearing him cry out she discovered that he was her husband. He explained to her that he was going to kill her because the letter from the road had made him believe her unfaithful.
She asked him whether he had not read what she herself had written on the back, where she threatened the Obá with death in case he showed up. He answered that he had not, because the envelope was covered with mud. She burst into tears, but he said to her calmly: “Do not cry. I die content, because now I know that you truly love me.”
Judging by only part of the truth leads to destroying what one loves most. Jealousy and haste blind a person, and whoever does not heed the warning of Ifá walks unseeing toward disaster.