A man disapproved of his youngest daughter's courtship, because her boyfriend was a man of vices with a bad reputation. Many times he asked her to end it and look for a young man without vices, but she paid no attention.
Then the father kept her locked in and under constant watch, to keep the relationship from moving forward. Worn down by so much control, the girl ran away with her boyfriend.
The mother, upset but eager to avoid something worse, asked her husband not to go after their daughter or report her. After much discussion, the father agreed.
The son in law, noticing that nobody demanded anything, imagined that his father in law was planning some harm against them. He lived frightened and tense, and his wife noticed. One day she visited him at the gambling place where he worked and saw him uneasy, watching everywhere, as if he feared an attack. At home she spoke to him about it and he admitted that it was not exactly fear: he believed her father could do them harm, and that was why he was always alert.
In time he gave up gambling and found another job. Every night he came back home and no longer went out, and he spent it beside his wife.
Later she became pregnant and had a beautiful girl. On that occasion the son in law visited his father in law's house with his wife and daughter, and brought gifts. The father in law already knew that the young man had changed; he welcomed him like a son, and a little later the wedding was held.
Opposing a relationship harshly and watching or locking in a daughter only makes her run away. Ceasing to pursue her gave the son in law time to change his life. In time, the one who seemed a problem was welcomed like a son.
It is wise not to obstruct the courtships of daughters or hurl curses at them, because in the end they are reconciled.